Author: Arkeshia Brown

Luke 15:11–32

Have you ever gone to a parent and asked for something you knew in your heart you should have waited to receive? Yet, because of their love for you, they gave it—fully aware that the outcome might not be what you expected. This is the heart of the Parable of the Lost Son.

Herbert Lockyer describes this beloved parable in three powerful movements: “the rejection of home, the return to home, and the reception at home.” Each stage reflects a part of our spiritual journey.

1. The Rejection of Home

The younger son represents those moments in our lives when we crave what we are not ready for. As Lockyer writes, “with a craving for false independence, the younger son took his portion and went abroad.” Many of us have felt that desire—to step ahead of God’s timing because we want something now. But sometimes God allows it, knowing that the lessons we will learn along the way will draw us back to Him.

The son imagined freedom, fun, and fulfillment. Instead, he encountered famine, disappointment, abandonment, and spiritual emptiness. Those he assumed would support him vanished when life became difficult. How often do we discover that everything we chased after cannot sustain us?

2. The Return to Home

Even in the far country of poor choices, the Holy Spirit still whispers. He convicts. He calls. He gently leads us back to repentance. The younger son remembered his father’s goodness and said, “I will arise and go to my father and will say to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you.’”

He did not feel worthy of sonship—yet he humbled himself and began the journey home.

3. The Reception at Home

Before the son could even reach the door, the father saw him from afar and ran to him. He embraced him. He restored him. He celebrated him. This is God’s heart toward us. No matter how far we stray, no matter how deep the brokenness or how long the wandering, God’s arms are always open.
All He asks is that we repent and return.

The Older Brother’s Struggle

But the parable does not end there. The older brother could not rejoice. He felt overlooked, unacknowledged, and jealous. He obeyed, stayed, worked, and remained faithful—yet saw no celebration for himself.

His father gently reminded him that everything he had was already his. The celebration was not about performance—it was about restoration.

We, too, must guard our hearts from becoming self-righteous or prideful. Sometimes the sin of the older brother—resentment, spiritual pride, or withholding grace—is just as dangerous as the sins of the younger brother.

Lockyer writes, “The Saviour calls sinners and not the self-righteous to repentance—although the latter need to repent as much, if not more, than the former.”

A Message for Us Today

God’s desire is that the lost be found.
That the broken be restored.
That the wandering return home.
That the self-righteous be humbled.
That grace be extended—to others and to ourselves.

Whether we see ourselves as the younger son who drifted or the older brother who resented, the Father calls us to His love, His forgiveness, and His restoring embrace.

May we open our hearts to repentance, humility, compassion, and celebration over every soul that returns home.